Generosity Is The New Sexy

Generosity Is The New Sexy

I’ve found myself thinking a lot about generosity lately. As I experience over the top amounts of it in my life right now, with friends and family housing me during my “I think I’ll be homeless for 4 months, adventure!”, I’m beyond grateful, to say the least.

It’s also got me thinking about the places where I easily show up in an open hearted, generous way and what causes me to constrict, hold onto things tightly and fall into a sense of “not enoughness” and lack in my life. Quite fascinating.

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When Loving Yourself Means Letting Him Go

When Loving Yourself Means Letting Him Go

Ladies, let's check in here for a moment. Yes, we're all human and make mistakes. Yes, the people who are brought into our lives give us powerful opportunities to look at ourselves - from our wounded places and triggers that still need attention, to what values we hold dear and whether we are willing throw our own moral compass to the ground just to have some loving affection from someone.

But can I tell you how many times I hear in a week, women tell me how an "ex", a former boyfriend or a date who's run hot/cold is suddenly rushing back to them when something in their "outside" world changes for the worse? And can I tell you how many times these women list all the many reasons that it's probably not a good "risk", and yet smile sheepishly at the end and say, "But I love him. And we're told to forgive, right? And I really think things will be different this time."

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